Katayoun Shirzad, a writer, family consultant, and cultural and social activist, shares her experience of nearly fifty years living abroad and the complex dimensions of immigration in an interview with Iranian News Agency. She states that immigration is not just a geographical relocation, but a journey to understand a new community and adapt to it.
Preserving Identity Among Different Cultures
Shirzad believes that immigrants should preserve their cultural identity and roots, creating a bridge between their original culture and the new society. She says, “An immigrant should not abandon their past identity, but rather experience a dual sense of belonging by balancing both cultures.”
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She points to the changes in immigration in recent years, adding, “Today’s immigrants have access to more information and can gain a better understanding of the destination community before arriving. However, emotional and psychological issues still exist and need special attention.”
Emotional Wounds and Identity Challenges
In a significant part of the conversation, Shirzad addresses the psychological and emotional wounds of the Iranian immigrant community, emphasizing that many individuals carry unresolved traumas and experiences into their new lives. These issues can resurface in family relationships, marriages, and child-rearing.
She considers consulting a psychologist and receiving specialized help as a necessary step, stating, “This action is not only scientific but also humanitarian and can help individuals improve their quality of life.”
Shirzad also mentions the identity challenges faced by immigrant children and adolescents, noting that the children of immigrant families may experience confusion between family values and the new culture. These differences require dialogue and time to resolve.
She continues by discussing her works and books, explaining that writing for her is not just about recording memories but a form of dialogue with herself and others. Many of her writings are shaped by the real experiences of immigrants and human relationships.
Personal Transformation and Advice to New Immigrants
Shirzad reflects on her personal transformation over the years, stating, “Throughout these years, I have tried to move from anger and pain towards understanding and empathy.” She views difficult life experiences as opportunities for learning and growth.
Finally, she advises new immigrants to connect with the new community while preserving their Iranian identity and culture, not to be afraid of asking questions and learning, and to strive for their professional and social growth. The main message of this conversation is that immigration can be a challenging yet profoundly constructive experience; an experience that, if accompanied by awareness and self-love, can lead to deeper growth and meaning in life.
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